Edited post, first published September 20, 2018. I’m revisiting some old posts to see if I’ve learnt anything.
“A point of view can be a dangerous luxury
when substituted for insight and understanding.”
— Marshall McLuhan, The Gutenberg Galaxy
Perhaps writer Marshall McLuhan was a time traveller. These seemingly prescient words were written more than fifty years ago when social media wasn’t even on the drawing board and a tiny black and white television was the only screen in most homes. Back in our day, we were pretty much raised to listen, learn and fall in line. Questioning authority was something men were sometimes allowed to do, but only on rare occasions, but women? Children? Never. Girl children? Are you nuts?
I unearthed some old report cards this week. I was such a “pleasure to teach” apparently. That was until I found myself at a church-run school at 11. This was no “You’re a wizard, Harry” moment, sadly. My parents truly thought it best for us, even though I was happy and thriving at the local primary school. Instead of thriving, I can use those report cards to plot a course of self-destruction over the three years I was unfortunate enough to be stuck in that horrible school that hated me almost as much as I hated it. I burnt the evidence but I need to remember that there’s a reason for everything…?
Isn’t there?
If there’s no reason then at least I believe that nothing is wasted. I can forget the pain and hurt but I won’t forget the lessons learnt.
Oh, would that I had attended a Steiner school or the Green School in Bali (if they had one of those back then), or Hogwarts. sigh…(I’ve done the questionnaire and as an 11 year old I most certainly would have been in Slytherin.)
{Slytherins tend to be ambitious, shrewd, cunning, strong leaders, and achievement-oriented. They also have highly developed senses of self-preservation. This means that Slytherins tend to hesitate before acting, so as to weigh all possible outcomes before deciding exactly what should be done.}
I might have been a “pleasure to teach” as a wee girl but being at a school I hated and disagreed with made me into a disturbing element and taught me to ask “too many” questions. As I approach my mid-century, the last couple of years have seen me constantly having to confront and unlearn so many opinions and beliefs, some of which were so deeply held I was surprised to see them when they popped up, like an unfortunate outfit tucked at the back of the wardrobe that I’d forgotten about.
On the flip side, I’ve tried to teach my son to listen, learn, read, listen to someone else, read something different, learn some more, question, question, question! We need to question our opinions, our biases and our beliefs. Is it so bad to ask ourselves where these things come from? My church and school taught me that asking questions just gets you into trouble which is true, to be fair, but it’s worth it in the long run to have your mind, eyes, and heart opened.
Our minds are like children; they must be fed to grow and they will only grow on what we feed them. If we feed them garbage and waffle they will be stunted and petty. If we feed our minds on hate and cruelty, our thoughts cannot help but be hateful and cruel. If we close our minds and allow only what the damn algorithm lets through then we will be fed a steady diet of WHAT WE ALREADY KNOW, which tricks us thinking we know it all!
You know what they say about opinions? They’re like genitals. Everyone has them but you don’t going around waving yours ain everyone’s faces.
Right…?
When asked if he thought the human race was evolving, Nobel Prize-winning author and teacher Elie Wiesel said it comes down to the individual to evolve. Same goes for peace, kindness, animal liberation, equality…
If you learn from me, just one thing it would be to think higher and feel deeper ~ Elie Wiesel
For Writers…
We can all benefit from an open-minded approach to learning but as writers and creatives especially, we owe it to ourselves to get outside of our circle of understanding and push ourselves to learn, to see things from another perspective. Stephen King says our first 1,000,000 words are garbage and I’d suggest that any number of words written by someone who refuses to read, to learn, to grow, will be garbage.
As much as I love Nanowrimo, I always recommend the 10/10 challenge to writers. This is a challenge that we can commit to every year to, before the end of October, the 10th month to read 10 books from different genres than you’d usually read. I would also challenge writers to read some poetry, some ancient literature and some graphic novels to change things up a little.
Is anyone out there doing #last90days? How’s it going? I’ve only had cheese twice in the past 9 days so that’s a win…isn’t it? I’m still coffee-free and getting up early. I am also going for a check-up today at my GP. This is something I dread and try to avoid which is super-childish. Drink water and have a great day.
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